February. I Guess. If We Must.

To recap – still might have bedbugs? #unclear But I have been checking and there are no signs so far. I am going to make an appointment with like, Terminix or something soon. I was going to do it sooner, but I didn’t want to cause too many waves at my house. My mother hadn’t…

Burn It Down

How do you know when to distance yourself from a friend? Or to break up with them completely? Part of my problem is that I don’t think that I can break up with up with him (per say). All of my friends are close friends with him and my fella is tight with him and I’m…

Dropped A Bomb

It’s been a bit of ride at work the last few days. We’re changing payroll companies and for some reason, it’s quite the trial. I know you have to fill out loads of paperwork when you hire in somewhere, but it seems that we’re filling out loads of stuff (and then some) all over again….

Here We Go Again

New Year, New…Me? …Probably Not. But I do suppose that it’s the thought that counts. I can’t promise to write more, because I don’t like making promises that I can’t (or won’t) keep. But I will try. About a month ago a friend of mine died and he was a writer. And while we never…

Once again I spent the weekend (a bit longer, really), traveling. The fella and I went to North Carolina for five days to visit friends and meet his dad (for me. Clearly he has met his father before) We drove down on a Friday morning. I have never, honestly, been in a car for that…

California Dreamin

       I spent the last weekend in California visiting my friend Emily who I haven’t seen in about 8+ years. It was one of the more impromptu trips I’ve taken basically…ever. The last time I traveled quite so impulsively was when I took my semester in Ireland and my friend Lara turned to me…

Surprise…?

I received an email Tuesday about the Surprise!Interview. It obviously was not the happy kind of email, as shown by my lack of capital letters and general lack of woohoo-ing. It’s awkward when you cry at work about the job you didn’t get. I stepped into the parking lot, cool as a cucumber (and by…

Weekends…

I bought a new laptop this past Thursday since mine is officially ded. Being the super patient person I am, I then lost my shit about…Saturday as to why it hadn’t arrived yet. Needless to say, I was a real joy to be around. I was also feeling generally sorry for myself for having to spend that…

Borked Computer Bork Bork Bork 

On Monday morning I went to check my email (as you do over morning tea) and I noticed it didn’t seem to be charging. I did the usual trouble shooting things – I restarted it, I unplugged it and plugged it back in – then I did what I do best. I told Andy my…

It’s Been A While

It’s been an extraordinarily long week. There’s really not much else to say about it. This is compounded by me needing a B12 shot, which is sitting on my dresser. I’ll admit, that one is on me. But otherwise, I’m just tired. I’m feeling guilty for things I shouldn’t feel guilty about. I’m frustrated because…

It’s Not Me, It’s You

I broke my promise to write every week (or at least I think I did). But I’m writing more than once every three months and let’s look at that as a victory, shall we? I quit my therapist this week. Or to be more exact I fired her. I accessed the hive mind and it…

On My Honor, I Solemnly Swear

I’m a bad blogger. I recognize this. I’m really good at starting them, I like setting them up and I sometimes write a little. Then I ghost on it. I promise to do better. At least one post a week. Okay? Between you and me. One thing my therapist has taught me is that I…